READ:

(Before reading tell group that the first question will be “What phrases or ideas stands out to you as we read this passage”. Ask them to keep this in mind as we read through the passages)

MATTHEW 5:38-48
Eye for Eye

38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’[h] 39 But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. 40 And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. 41 If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. 42 Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.

Love for Enemies

43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor[i] and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

DISCUSSION

What phrases or ideas stands out to you as you read this passage?

1. What do you find most difficult about Jesus’ instructions in these verses? 

2. Jesus’ quotation of “Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth” comes from Exodus 21:24. This law was designed to limit excessive retaliation in providing Justice. How can the desire for justice sometimes get confused with a desire for revenge?

3. Looking at verses 39-42, what would your natural response be to each of these situations?

4. What good might come about in being obedient by turning the other cheek or going a second mile? 

5. In what other situations might Jesus’ commands apply today? 

6.  In what ways is Jesus’ command extraordinary (vv. 46-48)? 

7. Do Jesus’ teachings mean that Christians are to be doormats for the world to walk on?  

8. How was Jesus himself an example of the principles “Do not resist an evil person” and “Love your enemies”? 

9. How does it affect your view of Jesus to consider that you were an enemy that he loved?

Share and Pray
In what situation, or with what person/people do you want God’s help to be a person who loves their enemies?